First,
thanks to everyone via Facebook and this blog and whatever way you’ve
communicated your thoughts and prayers for mom and all of us! She hasn’t seen all of them yet, but she will
soon…and as promised, here’s how the day has gone so far.
You know,
0300 is early. But we had an 0500 report
time to Loma Linda Medical Center for surgical check in, so early shower and
coffee fixed (mine!) and away we went.
After mom was sent up to pre-op stage 2 and they kicked me out, I went
down and signed up for the text updates…pretty nice system. I got the text that “surgery started at 8:19
and Nan is doing fine”.
We were
told by Dr. DeVera last Friday at the pre-op appointment that the first part of
the surgery would involve some more pathology tests, since officially they hadn’t
formally confirmed that this is cancer and confirming a diagnosis was the first
step. This would be within the first two
hours or so. If they found anything outside
of the pancreas, they’d close her up and not do the planned Whipple procedure
because the cancer needed to be isolated to the pancreas only for that to be
done.
By about
1030, I got the text that I needed to call the OR9, figured this would be the
news regarding the pathology. I called
and spoke with the doc who explained that he had started the surgery
laparoscopically (much smaller incisions for a camera and instruments and a
quicker recovery), but due to scar tissue she’s got from other abdominal
surgeries, he had to make a full incision.
Then the news that, indeed, they got a positive test from some lymph
nodes near the liver, which means no Whipple.
And the same information also confirms that with cancer in the lymph
system, it’s already spreading, so the next step would need to be chemo…not
really the news anyone wished to hear, but not a huge surprise either.
So, they
closed her back up and to recovery she went.
Thinking we had a
couple of hours in recovery before she’d get to a room, I had a hankering to
get a computer-carrying day pack from a nearby Office Depot since I forgot my daypack
at home and carrying this laptop and my iPad was a bit heavy in a BYOB bag!
(It’s easier for me to type and update the blog on my laptop, and mom has
already commandeered my iPad as I currently type…she’s a solitaire addict!
;) But of course, while we were out for
about 20 minutes (successful purchase in hand), we got a text to talk to the doc. Hmmm…already did…what’s this for? We hustled back, I called to hear that she was in recovery asking for me, but of course I couldn't go in there...so I
got the run down on when she’d get transferred to a room.
Although
Dale & I talked with the doctor, we weren’t sure if the doc was going to
talk with mom before we saw her or if we’d be the one to break the news about
the surgery and the results. Sort of
thankfully, the doc got to her first…and much to both of our surprise, mom even
remembered what he said! Surprised
because she was still in that drug induced stupor you see similar to those
viral videos parents embarrass their kids with after they get their wisdom
teeth out…but we were nice, the cameras stayed in the pockets. ;)
The
important thing to emphasize right now is mom is completely aware and knows the
story and wants you to know too...there are no secrets at this point. The bottom line is that it is indeed
pancreatic cancer and it’s staged at about a 3.5, considering the lymphatic
involvement. She’s not thrilled with the
news nor the need to make more decisions.
However, at least we all have some definitive answers as to what she is
facing and some of the battles ahead.
Her mood remains the same, thinking positively and keeping the spirits
up…which is also requested to continue from everyone as it is helpful for us all to do the same. Attitude is everything when it comes to
getting the most out of the fight!
And, to
help improve the prognosis for a good attitude while making tough decisions,
the primary goal for now will be pain management. She’s currently being assessed as to the
viability of providing a “celiac plexus block”.
Instead of the standard method of the procedure, they’re looking to do
this via endoscopic for her. Here’s a layman’s description of what
that is from medcentral.org:
“What is a celiac plexus block?
A celiac plexus block is an injection of local anesthetic into or around the celiac plexus of nerves that surrounds the aorta, the main artery in the abdomen. Normally these nerves control basic nerve functions. In certain conditions, these nerves can carry pain information from the gut or abdominal organ tissues back to the spinal cord and brain.“
And why do this from John’s Hopkins:
“The celiac plexus is a group of nerves that supply organs in the abdomen. A celiac plexus block may be performed if you are experiencing severe chronic abdominal pain or abdominal pain from cancer.“
Because of
the large incision and to monitor the block procedure (if done) and pain control, she
will be in the hospital for about 5 days.
The doc anticipates her going home by the weekend, as long as she’s
moving, peeing, and eating to their satisfaction too, of course.
This afternoon in between snoozes she's been awake, playing solitaire and as cantankerous as ever...particularly because she is very hungry and thirsty...as we have heard *multiple* times. ;) The answer is still no for that as of yet...so she continues to suck on her sponge pops. She is in a step-down unit, sharing the room and I will not be able to stay here tonight nor are visitors welcomed as of yet. However, please feel free to leave a message here and we'll be sure she gets it.
Thanks again to everyone. This "new way" is still being discovered and navigated by us all, your support is much appreciated...stay tuned for more when we've got it, but for now...good night!
Heather thanks for the update. Not what any of her friends and family wanted to hear. But at least now your questions are answered. All her former Hilton friends and co workers are praying for her and pulling for her!! Hang in there Nan! You are a feisty lady and you've been thru alot and this is a new challenge! Wishing you a speedy recovery so you can get on with life!! <3
ReplyDeleteNan: Margaret might be the boxer in your family, but YOU are the fighter!! I am so sorry that you are having to face this fight, but proud to be in your corner. Much love and encouraging thoughts to you and your family as you face this challenge head on.
ReplyDeleteThank you for the update Heather. Nan you are in our thoughts and prayers.
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Thank you for keeping us up to date. Praying for a devine intervention I've knowledge for you guys as well as the doctors. Please give Nan my love.
ReplyDeleteHeather, your update is so thorough. It is good not to have secrets and facing issues head on, and I can only imagine what your Mom, you and your family is going through. While all focus is on Mom, don't forget to take care of yourself, too. My prayers continue for you all.
ReplyDeleteWe keep Nan in our prayers daily and send love and upbeat thoughts. God is in control ! What a wonder our medical world has progressed so far in pain management. Luv from Ruthie & Bill (SOJ) (sorry Heather I am not savvy about the "Publish" button so chose anonymous)
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